Social-networking sites and applications like facebook,
blog, twitter etc is a personal space where individuals
are free to talk or post personal views, comments, likes/dislikes etc.

Before I start blogging for the day,
I will like to highlight that this entry
is solely based on my views and perspectives
that one may disagree, but the content remains true.
If you dislike the content or in any way find the content familiar to you
(e.g. I’m directing at someone specifically),

you can:



BUT

Don’t resort to sending nasty emails or
uncivilized message to my phone.
Because I am really not interested in your
views and comments. So please save the trouble,
I simply will not entertain.


And if you do not understand what I mean by a nasty comment.
Boy, lucky you. I have an example that I chanced upon recently.
Let’s close an eye for the grammatical errors
and wrong choice of words. I will like to stress on the loopholes,
words that are really contradicting.
Furthermore, I find it a good opportunity to reply back to the sender too.





Firstly, get your facts right!
Who agrees that it’s a social networking sites
where everyone have the freedom to post any content?

In fact I stressed that unlike some people,
I believe in posting content that is reliable and true,
not any tell-tales that some people will do.
This contradicting message strongly highlights alot of things.


And I seriously wonder who should really ‘grow up’?!


My reply:

“ I had enough of all your nonsenses... "
[funny! Don’t we wish for peace too,
but who kept the accusations and attacks coming?]

"I NV read any of you blogs yet I can receive
news from ppl tat u all still saying me... "
[Big joke! You mean you hired private investigators
or you place stalkers on our networking sites? ]

" Like hello, when did I call u ppl bitches... "
[I am certain that I saw this word – bitch used before,
the word did not came directly from you,
but in the content discussed, you agreed.
Don’t believe, check your older posts.
Agreeing with it at that phrase of time,
had already imply abt who you really are,
what’s friendship to you?
And I emphasize that Hui should not be drag into the picture
because she truly wasn’t referring to you,
unless you’re really guilty-conscious isn’t it?]

" When did my fb comments say abt you ppl...?? "
[Reflect!]

"I had enough already please... stop everything... "
[I will like to stop everything too, after I make my peace today.
I hope that you'll stop all the drama too.]

"If u ppl want to say mi, meet mi up and say... Time place say... ”
[Sorry, you sounded too aggressive here.
A civilized individual will not settle a problem in this manner.
And did you really wanted to talk NICELY?
Reflect back, who started the ball rolling with all those nasty comments?]



I just feel like blogging - intentionally or an act of boredom,
whichever suits you,
about an issue that has changed my life
and my dear ones around me.
But this entry is solely based on my views.
Please do not need to accuse any of my close friends.


I understand that some people, out of concern,
will like to know about what has been going on in my life
with those concerned entries.

I am really thankful and blessed, my life has been pretty great.
To think that such an unfortunate event is a blessing in itself.


Let’s give this person a pseudonym – MJ


MJ did small and hurtful things through her words
and actions that ruined a friendship.

MJ decided to use social networking sites
like facebook and blog to disseminate information
and degrade/demote others.
How ethical!
These days, she turned around and proudly exclaimed
that she has never mentioned anything about
these people on facebook and cried wolf.
On the contrary, MJ questioned these people
on why they talked bad about her. How irony?



The Earth population is close to 7 billion,
I wonder what makes MJ thinks that people can only talked about her?
As if their whole world revolves around her!
Wow, then MJ really thinks too highly of herself!
But even if MJ thinks and feels that everyone is talking about her
as if she’s so notorious, this is still their personal space.


Don’t be too full of yourself.
Think about those days where you talked bad about
people who stand by you today, your close ones.
‘Yesterday', we were the ones consoling you,
and ‘today’ we ended up being the ones that you talked about.



In fact, there were more devastating discoveries
that make me felt that knowing MJ was a joke itself.
How can I even associate MJ to terms like ‘sister’
or ‘buddy’ or proudly tell others about a decade of friendship.
It tickles me when I think of the time
where I was so naive to believe MJ’s words without a doubt.


Perhaps just like others,
I bought her stories because at that point of time,
I trust her.
I must admit that those times,
I was blinded by ‘friendship’ that
look genuine without realizing that I am
holding a bucket full of holes.
Simply forgot the fact that, there are always two-sides to a story.
But I was not the one who was badly hurt by those actions.
My heart aches for others who were wounded by those actions and words.


So dear readers, before you buy any stories,
be smart and question its validity and reliability
before you start nodding your head or rant like a fool.


And I will like to stress that
I have a clear conscience on the contents I posted here.
My blog welcomes all readers,
I do not have to resort to small actions
like changing my blog address or purposely
protect the content with a password.
I reckon some people to it for their own reasons,
but one particular hateful one, is because -

They can rant or brat about contents to readers
who will buy their stories. Who cares if the content
is not totally true or have loopholes, for no one will
question its validity and reliability.



A word of caution to you, there are always pitfalls and karma.

The choice of my words imply
that I will have my karma IF the above is not true,
and the same goes to you.
I will not go beyond contempt to gain pity votes or fake innocence.
Reflect on your past actions and words,
it will help you to understand ‘why’?


Those who seriously know me,
will know that I am not a petty person
to badmouth people and tarnished other’s reputation
like some people would.
Keeping my peace about the whole issue does not equal to inferiority.
To this day, situation has forced me to air one’s dirty linen in public.


But I am seriously not going to ‘crack more jokes’ after today.
I do not wish to be on the same level like you do.

I can’t help wondering if you’ll ever understand
what pure friendship is about.

But thanks to you, we got even closer.

Anyway I will still like to wish you all the best in
your future endeavor..